Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships

Women's Recovery including Sex and Love Addiction

Kim Litton with raw honesty, she opens up about her journey from addiction and trauma to freedom and recovery, offering a powerful message: hope is real, and healing is possible.

Kim speaks about the myths and misconceptions around female sex and love addiction, the impact of childhood wounds, and how the desire to be seen and valued shaped her early relationships. This isn’t just a story of recovery, it’s a testimony of reclaiming self-worth, breaking generational patterns, and finding true freedom.

Tune in to hear:
Why Kim kept the most vulnerable parts of her story in the book
What female sex and love addiction really looks like
How childhood trauma shaped her understanding of love
The deeper message of hope, healing, and limitless possibility

This is a conversation for anyone who’s ever felt unseen, unloved, or unsure if freedom was possible for them. Kim’s story is proof that transformation is not only real but worth every step.

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7 stages of male betrayal trauma especially anger

Adam Nisenson speaks about the overlooked emotional journey of men navigating betrayal trauma. He introduces the 7 stages of what he calls masculine betrayal trauma, a healing framework that includes taboo topics like ego wounds, self-worth, suppressed anger, competitiveness, and intrusive thoughts.

Adam shares how men often internalize pain, avoid vulnerability, and struggle with the concept of safety in relationships. From unhealthy fantasies to the courage it takes to cry, this discussion challenges outdated beliefs around masculinity and healing.

If you've ever felt lost, angry, or unsure how to move forward after betrayal—this episode offers clarity, connection, and the beginnings of transformation.

Watch now to learn:
Why anger can be healthy when processed correctly
How jealousy and competitiveness show up in male healing
Why the concept of “safety” doesn’t always land for men
The unique way men heal emotionally after betrayal

Subscribe for more insights on healing, emotional growth, and real conversations around masculinity.

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Light in the Dark: Ken Adams on Adult Children of Sex Addicts & Breaking Family Shame

Dr. Ken Adams, renowned clinician, author, and expert in the field of sex addiction treatment—joins Wendy Conquest and Jeanne Vattuone live from the IITAP Symposium to discuss his groundbreaking new book Light in the Dark co-authored with Dr. Mary Meyer and Culle Vande Garde, this book is the first of its kind to give voice to the lived experiences of adult children of sex addicts.

Ken opens up about his own journey, the shame he carried, and the powerful decision to share his personal story in the book. He also breaks down the core structure of the work: personal narratives, common characteristics of adult children, roles they play in the family, and a clear path to healing—with an emphasis on reclaiming personal power and moving beyond a victim identity.

Whether you’re a clinician, a survivor, or someone looking to understand the intergenerational impact of sexual addiction in families, this episode offers hope, clarity, and a new lens for healing.

Trigger warning: This episode discusses topics related to family trauma, sexual addiction, and shame. Please listen with care.

Learn more about Light in the Dark and Ken’s work at kennyadamsphd.com

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Ken Adams Opens Up About Writing His First Book Silently Seduced and then Light In the Dark

Dr. Ken Adams never set out to become an author but sometimes, the story finds you before you know how to tell it. In this moving and honest conversation, Ken recounts the origin of his newest book Light in the Dark, a long-awaited exploration into the lives of adult children of sex addicts.

Speaking with Jeanne Vattunne and Wendy Conquest live at the IITAP Symposium, Dr. Adams shares how his professional path intersected with his own unresolved pain. Discovering Patrick Carnes’ work in the late ’80s opened his eyes to dynamics that felt all too familiar. Yet something essential was missing: no one was talking about what it’s like to grow up in that world.

With the support of co-authors Dr. Mary Meyer and Culle Vande Garde, Ken brings to light the internal struggles, relational patterns, and silent burdens carried by children raised in homes overshadowed by sexual addiction. For the first time, he also tells his own story, breaking the silence in a way that invites others to do the same.

This episode is about reclaiming your voice, validating your pain, and making space for healing where there’s been silence for too long.

Adult Children of Sex Addicts; How Does Someone Know? Ken Adams on Family Betrayal and Silent Pain

Dr. Ken Adams joins hosts Wendy Conquest and Jeanne Vattuone to explore a topic rarely spoken about: the invisible burden carried by children who grow up in homes shadowed by sexual secrets and betrayal.

Drawing from decades of clinical experience, Ken sheds light on how children absorb the confusion, shame, and broken trust that ripple through families affected by sex addiction.

This conversation opens a door to understanding the profound impact of betrayal trauma across generations, and the courage it takes to finally name it.

When Men Are Betrayed: A Raw Conversation on Male Partner Betrayal Trauma

What happens when a man is sexually betrayed and no one talks about it?

In this powerful episode, Adam Nisenson joins Dan Drake and Tim Stein live at the ITAP Symposium to break the silence around male partner betrayal trauma.

Adam shares his personal story of discovering his wife’s affair over a decade ago, and how that painful experience led him to write A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal, the first book of its kind written by a man, for men.

The conversation explores why betrayed men often stay silent for years, and how male betrayal trauma manifests in unique ways such as competitiveness, jealousy, and intrusive thoughts. Adam opens up about the shame and cultural stigma that prevent men from seeking help, and how most available resources are directed toward women, leaving men without guidance.

Adam's story is not just about heartbreak, it’s about reclaiming self-worth, finding your voice, and redefining masculinity in the face of deep emotional pain.

Why Men Struggle to Heal Alone — And How Connection Can Change Everything

Healing from sex addiction and betrayal isn’t a solo journey—especially for men. In this insightful conversation, the struggle many men face with opening up, often stuck in the “ego trap” of having to fix everything alone, is explored. The truth? Recovery requires connection, empathy, and tools—and it often starts when one man breaks the silence, encouraging others to do the same.

Discover why a brotherhood or supportive community is crucial, and why professional guidance can make all the difference in sustained healing. The importance of understanding from betrayed partners and how recovery books and workbooks are evolving to meet the unique needs of men is also discussed.

Whether on your own healing path or supporting someone who is, this video offers real talk about vulnerability, accountability, and the power of witnessing each other’s journey.

Adam Nisenson speaks to being a betrayed partner

“I was told once that women cheat to leave and men cheat to stay.” But is that really the whole story? In this candid discussion with therapist Adam Nisenson, we explore the deeper realities behind why people cheat and challenge common stereotypes. Drawing from years of experience working with both men and women, Adam uncovers how infidelity often reflects complex emotional struggles rather than simple motives.

NEW BOOK! Breaking the Silence: Kim Litton’s Raw Journey from Addiction to Redemption

Join therapist and author Kim Litton as they courageously share their personal story of recovery from sex, love, and substance addiction in their memoir I Do It For Her. In this heartfelt conversation recorded at the ITAP Symposium, Kim opens up about the intense shame, struggles, and pain they faced—and how they found hope, healing, and freedom through recovery. Whether on your own healing journey or supporting someone else, Kim’s story is a powerful reminder that transformation is possible, even when it feels impossible.

In this interview, Kim talks about the challenges of female sex and love addiction, navigating recovery while being a therapist and single parent, and the importance of vulnerability and raw honesty in healing. They share how finding hope and freedom gave them a new purpose, and why sharing stories can help others feel less alone on their path to recovery.

"I Do It For Her": Kim Litton Shares Her Powerful Journey Through Addiction and Recovery

In this intimate conversation, Kim Litton opens up about the deeply personal story behind their memoir, I Do It For Her: A Memoir of Recovery and Redemption from Sex, Love, and Substances. With over 21 years in recovery, Kim reflects on the hidden struggles she faced—not only with drugs and alcohol but also with sex and love addiction, which went unrecognized for years.

They share how early sobriety was marked by confusion and pain, navigating relationships without understanding the true nature of the addiction. From experiences as a therapist to the challenges of acting out while trying to heal, Kim’s story reveals the raw reality behind addiction’s many faces.

Learn how the journey toward recovery is rarely a straight path, but rather a gradual process of lessening the frequency, intensity, and impact of addictive behaviors over time. This video offers hope and insight for anyone facing similar struggles, reminding us all that healing is possible—one step, one day, one moment at a time.