Episodes

Saturday Oct 12, 2024
Saturday Oct 12, 2024
In our latest video, Dr. Janie Lacy speaks on the complexities of narcissistic relationships, particularly with covert narcissists who often go undetected. She explains how these dynamics trap women in toxic cycles for years, leaving them feeling confused and blaming themselves. Stay tuned for our full episode with Dr. Janie Lacy.

Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Is This You? How to Recognize Signs of a Toxic Relationship with Dr. Janie Lacy
Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Ever wondered if you're in a toxic relationship? In this video, Janie breaks down the key signs to look for—like obsessive behavior, emotional roller coasters, and the painful cycle of trying to leave but being pulled back. She also touches on the common misconception of narcissism and how it impacts relationships. If you've ever felt trapped in unhealthy relationship patterns, this video is for you. Stay tuned for our full episode with Dr. Janie Lacy.

Tuesday Oct 08, 2024
From Trauma to Healing: Dr.Janie Lacy's Journey into Love Addiction Recovery
Tuesday Oct 08, 2024
Tuesday Oct 08, 2024
Dr. Janie Lacy shares how her career in counseling began, sparked by a pivotal experience with a young client who survived sexual assault. This led her to explore trauma, love addiction, and eventually join the CSAT community. Subscribe for more insightful conversations and empowering stories! Stay tuned for our full episode with Dr. Janie Lacy.

Friday Sep 27, 2024
Sex Addiction Therapists Get Real
Friday Sep 27, 2024
Friday Sep 27, 2024
In this episode, they provide insight into how we balance empathy, accountability, and challenge while working with addicts. We explore the complexities of detecting deception, handling relapses, and creating safe spaces for clients to share their struggles. This candid conversation offers a deep dive into the nuances of therapy for sex addiction and the transformative power of recovery.

Wednesday Sep 25, 2024
Why We Love Working with Sex Addicts?
Wednesday Sep 25, 2024
Wednesday Sep 25, 2024
Working with sex addicts can be deeply challenging but also incredibly rewarding. In this discussion, we share our experiences and perspectives on why we are passionate about this specialty. The work isn't just about addressing sexual dysfunction or relational issues; it's about guiding people through their journey of healing, transformation, and self-restoration. We talk about the privilege of being trusted to help clients navigate their shame, trauma, and pain, and how we help them turn these dark experiences into growth and hope.

Monday Sep 23, 2024
Quick Conversations: Balancing Empathy and Accountability
Monday Sep 23, 2024
Monday Sep 23, 2024
The discussion also touches on balancing empathy with accountability. While it's important to avoid shaming the client, it's equally essential not to minimize their relapse. The approach includes both encouragement and challenge, analyzing what happened and identifying steps to prevent future relapses.
The goal is to help clients harness feelings of regret as motivation for change, without letting them fall into a deep shame spiral. This balanced approach seems to foster more open communication and honesty from clients regarding their behaviors.

Friday Sep 20, 2024
Mailbag: Relapse and Recovery With Sex Addiction
Friday Sep 20, 2024
Friday Sep 20, 2024
Today’s mailbag episode tackles a complex question from a listener about relapse and recovery.
The question revolves around the pain of discovering a partner’s hidden sex addiction and the struggle with the concept that relapse is part of recovery. We explore whether relapse is acceptable or justifiable, discuss the impact on partners, and delve into the accountability of sex addicts.
We address the idea that while relapse can occur, it’s not an excuse for continued harmful behavior. Our discussion highlights the importance of clear expectations and accountability in recovery, and we offer insights on how to manage and prepare for potential setbacks.

Wednesday Sep 18, 2024
Would the treatment for sex addiction differ if most addicts were women instead of men?
Wednesday Sep 18, 2024
Wednesday Sep 18, 2024
Would the treatment for sex addiction differ if most addicts were women instead of men?
Clinically, the model remains the same for both genders, holding all addicts to the same standards of recovery. However, societal perceptions often differ, giving different leniencies to men and women. While the treatment approach focuses on ""progress, not perfection"" for everyone, societal and partner reactions to addiction and relapse can vary based on gender dynamics.
Stay tuned for our future video!

Monday Sep 16, 2024
Is Relapse an Excuse? The Hard Truth About Addiction, Sobriety, and Recovery
Monday Sep 16, 2024
Monday Sep 16, 2024
In our latest discussion, we explore the complex issue of addiction, relapse, and recovery, particularly in the context of sex addiction. The central question is whether it is ""okay"" for a sex addict to cause harm to their partner and family, with the justification that ""relapse is part of recovery.""
While relapse may occur for some addicts, it is not ""okay"" or an excuse for harmful behavior. There is a distinction between sobriety and recovery; sobriety is the starting point, and recovery involves ongoing work to heal the damage caused by addiction. Stay tuned for our future video!

Friday Sep 13, 2024
Technology's Influence on Relationships
Friday Sep 13, 2024
Friday Sep 13, 2024
Join us for an insightful discussion on the double-edged sword of technology in today's world, featuring Tim Stein, Jeannie Vittoni, Dan Drake, and Wendy Conquest. In this episode, we dive into how technology shapes our lives and relationships, the impact it has on our brain chemistry and development, and the challenges we face in staying truly connected.
Drawing insights from an interview with Dr. Pat Carnes, we explore topics like screen time, social isolation, and the addictive nature of our devices. From personal stories to research findings, we discuss how to find balance and stay mindful in a tech-driven age. Don’t miss this engaging conversation!